20090511
16:56
Well, have been based on site for the past 5 weeks, lots of new things I see on site, and many more happened out of site. And it’s being a while since I blogged. Got some free time at site, mostly spent on fighting the Z monster, so might as well do up some entry for my stagnant bloggie.
It still amazes us on how we actually got together, and I’m still in the state of wonder… wondering how everything happened.
The initial piece of the jigsaw puzzle was an attempt to pick up some random girl on a somewhat normal party nite. I was attracted to her body language in relation to the pounding music. We danced for merely a few minutes… and those minutes changed our lives 3 yrs from then.
That piece of jigsaw laid there for 3 yrs, until the first morning of the year; just another drink-dance-drunk moment for me, but a disheartened one of hers. We were like strangers all over again. But with the involvement of a flirtatious catalyst, strangers became acquaintances. We had our first proper conversation.
Subsequent pieces of the jigsaw came in place, 3 months after forging the acquaintanceship. The longest cuppa session I ever had, result of our similarities. Sports, music, drinks, arts… that’s all we talked.
Fateful nite came with a casual initiative. 1.5 litres of grape juice fermented in cognac gave birth to the happy spirited drunkard redfox. All he knew was to enjoy, indulging so much that he let his feelings out too easily. With such ease that wasn’t taken seriously at first thought. No sane mind will actually. Neither did her. The ignorant drunkard persisted.
The persistence paid off when the sun rose on 4th April 2009.
The most constructive times were spent on the staircase of a hdb apartment blk. Nothing romantic, but it was where doubts are cleared and trust was awarded.
Despite the similarities, indifference exists. Outsiders’ perceptions don’t matter… as long as we know what we want.
The jigsaw puzzle will never be complete… the beginning is 5 yrs from now.
-redfox & drunkard lived again-